MAKE SPARKS FLY

Cock confidence is a critical component of sexual performance. Feel good about your pant soldier and he'll stand up tall and strong, ready for adventure.

Our friend Sally tells the Truth. We were talking about working out and put forth that working out was about health and athletic performance, and that we always felt groovy in our bodies afterwards. Sally replied, "I work out so that when people look at me they want to have sex with me." Touché.

Know Thyself! While a thorough understanding of your own anatomy isn't required to be a good lover, it can certainly help to understand how to hack the system, allowing you to fuck longer, stay harder, and maximize pleasure. With those worthy goals in mind, here is the GPS to the hometown

In any new territory, it can be helpful to consult a map. Ladies have some lovely topographies. Ecstatic peaks and pleasure valleys. Time for a road trip! We were not born with this anatomy, fellas, so let's take a look at what she's working with. This is the GPS to PLEASURETOWN.

An eyebrow raised...an interest piqued...a tent pitched...AROUSAL! is state of sexual excitement that has physical, emotional, and spiritual components. It is a feeling that can be energizing and even a little inebriating.

As men, and perhaps we are stating the obvious here, we generally have no clue what it means to be a woman. This is just Mother Nature.

Once she feels safe, seen, and sexy, it's time to get physical. Finally! But way to set the stage. Continue to take it slow for a while, maybe even slower than you think you should...

She's hot. Everything is feeling great. Now what?  Let's up the ante. Women can come all kinds of different ways.

STAMINA. What a powerful word. As soon as you hear it, you want it. In athletics or mental conditioning, stamina - the ability to stay focused and energized over extended periods of time - is a crucial component of performance.

The modern lifestyle has a million distractions. Between your money hustle, sporting life, social activities, and hopefully getting some sleep in there somewhere, it can be easy to completely overlook sex in any given day, week, or Riley Reid forbid, month. 

Refraining from sex to enhance athletic performance is a time-honored tradition amongst male athletes. Muhammad Ali, Andre Agassi, Dustin "The Diamond" Poirier and countless others have all sworn by this method to conserve testosterone, as well as vital vitamins and minerals in their system.

Porn doesn't judge. Porn is always horny and available. And let's admit it, that's kinda awesome! Porn is easy, accessible, and private. Almost every man has watched porn. And more women than you may think. Porn is a huge industry, estimated to now compose one third of the internet.

Fantasies and fetishes get a bad rap. For a long time, both had the reputation of being a type of sexual perversion - that there is something wrong with you if you...

It's not just your girlfriend that's hormonal. In the simplest terms, hormones are messengers in our body that regulate our appetite, sleep/wake cycle, and sex drive among other functions. Hormones play an integral role in our daily lives and even more so in our sexuality.

Fun fact: Only 3% of all mammal species are truly monogamous. And while serial monogamy maintains the position of the most common form of human relationships, it is not the only way we can relate to each other.

Hand play is highly underrated. Don't sleep on this sexual martial art. Your hands, fingers, and especially your opposable thumbs are tools of the trade for turning her on and making her come.

"We didn't believe anal orgasms existed until she had one. And then she had another. And then another. Deep, transcendent, moaning, singing, growling, remember-them-for-the-next-week type orgasms.”

Ever wonder why we call it "eating" pussy?

Here's the Straight Truth: Sexual activity does involve risk. The most severe risks for an ethical lover are STDs/STIs (sexually transmitted diseases/infections) and unwanted pregnancies. But we can also include accidental injuries from bonking heads while boinking to "lost" toys that need a trip to the emergency room to remove.

Sexuality can have a dark side. And not like Goth or consensual BDSM. Sex can have a power dynamic to it and power dynamics can be abused. can be abused. Approximately 25% of men and 40% of women will experience some form of sexual violence in their life.